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49 years ago, Christmas Day 1975, Jeannie said “yes” as I proposed. That week we were serving at a Campus Crusade Christmas Conference for college students. At our hotel, we met a young married couple. They were in New Orleans to attend the Sugar Bowl and cheer on their Penn State Nitany Lions. I snagged some tickets to the game, surprise right? We went to the game with this couple and following the game we had the opportunity to share our faith with them. They both prayed to receive Christ. It was a wonderful way to start our engagement and ministry together.

We have served with each other in some capacity all these years. Now, with Jeannie’s retirement, we can again serve together in ministry with Legacy Landing. I am so excited to officially welcome Jeannie to our ministry to those that have been wounded, in life or ministry.

Would you celebrate with us with a year-end gift to Legacy Landing, which is our salary and helps us serve others? For those that have already given, thank you!

Please use the link below and please pray.

We love you,

Barry and Jeannie

https://legacylanding.org/give/

In 49 years of ministry, Jeannie and I have experienced many opportunities to present the gospel to others, to serve others. We have presented the gospel one on one to many, been on stages in front of 100’s of people with the same message.

I have led CRU summer projects, where we shared Christ with 20,000 people each summer.  I have been a campus director at University of North Texas and built relationships with some of the best kids ever, many who remain my friends today. I have hosted retreats for people in ministry who are tired and wounded. I have led high school ministries and seen many come to know Christ.

I have spoken at Fraternity and Sorority houses to tell college kids about Christ. I have been a chaplain of a college football team. I have shared Christ with professors at Ivy league schools, like Dartmouth, and other schools like MIT and U Mass.

I have worked 100-hour weeks to put on events, have gone to bed at midnight, and gone back to the office at 2 am to complete a task to hopefully encourage others. There were nights when I left the Empire State Building at midnight, caught the train to Harlem, where I was staying, only to be back on the train at 6:30 am to help grow a Christian college.

I have sat on the dock on the Kenai River, after days of cutting grass, weed eating, buying flowers, creating a setting for those that have experienced devastating loss to find a healing place at a Spark of Life retreat. I have sat across the table from a mom, whose children were murdered; to hear her story, her pain, and to tell her I love her.

To help fund ongoing ministries, I have worked on golf tournament fundraisers, where I spent 7 months out of the year preparing for a one-day event. I have led an army of volunteers who taught Home Builder Bible studies across the country.

Jeannie and I led a Family Life marriage conference to CRU staff in Poland. I have spoken in public classrooms in Russia and presented the gospel to teenage kids to see many respond and accept Christ. I have walked the dusty streets of Mexico and shown the Jesus film, as families rode donkeys to view the outdoor presentation and lined up in front of me to have me share Christ in the broken Spanish I learned in high school.

Honestly, this list can go on and on.

Two thoughts – none of this compares to what Christ did for us on the cross; His sacrifice, His love is unmatched in every way.

The second thing is the word “I”, referenced above, should be replaced with “WE.” So many of you have prayed for us and sacrificially given so “WE” could have a ministry together. The above is your work, your investments, your sacrifices.

Jeannie and I trust we have been good stewards of your gifts. We have been in this together. WE have partnered with Him to GO preach the gospel. Jeannie and I might have been the arms and feet, but you made it happen. Jeannie and I could not have gone without you. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.

We are not quitting. In fact, we hope we are now operating out of our best place ever to do His will. Like seasoning to a good meal, we are seasoned. As we lead Legacy Landing we are in our sweet spot as a couple.

God has called Jeannie and me to a ministry of hospitality. Jesus welcomed everyone to His table. The verse below inspires us. I guess it could be said, it is what we bring to the table.

“Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing so, some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.” Hebrews 13:2

The English word hospitality originates from the same Latin root as the word hospital. A hospital is literally a ‘home for strangers.’ Of course, it has come to mean a place of healing. There is a link between being welcomed and being healed.

Skye Jethani wrote, “Our homes are to be hospitals—refuges of healing radiating the light of heaven. And our dinner tables are to be operating tables—the place where broken souls are made whole again….When we lower our defenses, when we remove our façades and we begin to be truly present with one another—then the healing power of the gospel can begin its work.”

“Hospitality may be the church’s best weapon in the middle of the current culture war.” (Jon Tyson)

We are thankful for the opportunities you have given us as we continue to be His ambassadors.

Barry and Jeannie

The words that seem to be crossing my personal radar screen lately are Compassion Fatigue.  I hear them talked about in a Podcast, I see them in a book I am reading, those words seem to be everywhere. 

Years ago, when I was at FamilyLife, I worked with the most precious lady. Her name was Cliffe, she was my administrative assistant, she was a saint. One day she wrote a note and taped to my desk.  This is what it said, “Dear Barry, it is not your responsibility to take care of the whole world. That is my job!” –  GOD

Pastors, caregivers, health care professionals, business leaders today have a whole new set of battles as they juggle and struggle with the needs, not only in their personal lives and families, but as they manage the needs of their teams and co-workers. A new 5 letter word, COVID, has wreaked havoc in many of our lives.

Many years ago on the Ed Sullivan show, there was an entertainer who would spin multiple plates on top of long poles. He would start with one plate, then move on to the next and the next and the next, until there were many plates all spinning at the same time. As the plates began to wobble, he would dash back to the beginning and re-spin each plate just as they were about to crash to the floor. Is that not like us today, so many plates spinning, so much going on, then we wobble, hoping that someone or something will keep us from crashing to the floor.

A few years back, I had the joy of working with Spark of Life. This ministry came alongside people who had experienced devastating loss. We would call these people “our heroes.” It took so much courage for them to reach out for help. I worked with that ministry for 6 years, and it definitely took a toll on me.

It seemed that my every conversation was about loss. Every time I approached a donor, I was telling a loss story. I loved the hurting people who attended our grief recovery retreats. I wanted to help carry their burdens. Our Spark team gave all they had to come alongside these people.

When I left Spark of Life, I realized I had nothing left emotionally. In the past few years, I have lost several dear friends, I mean best friends. They were each in a battle with serious health issues, and I realized I had nothing to give them. It broke my heart that I had nothing. In the past, I would have been on the frontlines with them, reaching out to them. But instead, I wanted to retreat because I was emotionally exhausted. I was burned out, weary… I had compassion fatigue.  

I should have paid more attention to the note Cliffe left on my desk. It is not my responsibility to save the world. That is God’s job.

Over the past two years I have been on my own journey of recovery from burnout. I have endeavored to spend more time alone with God. To be still and listen. To meditate on these words from Jesus,

“Come to Me all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you, and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy, and My burden is light.”
Matthew 11:28-30

Have you noticed that Jesus was never in a hurry? He set an example by getting away often from the crowd, from the demands and the needs of others so He could have time to pray to His Father. He saw this as a priority. Our Lord retreated, rested, and prayed often. Should we not do the same?

This is why Legacy Landing is being formed, this is His ministry. The need has already been expressed by so many. It is ok to have a little Soul Care. We trust that our Legacy Landing retreats will be a gentle reminder that God has the world, He has you and He wants to spend time with you away from the noisy places in your life.

Jeannie and I recently spent some time at one of our retreat locations. It is a beach house on a small island in south Florida. You have to take a ferry boat to get to the property. It is a place I think Jesus would have gone to retreat, but he would not have needed a ferry boat. 

We still need God to provide the ongoing funds to support Legacy Landing. If you are in a position togive, will you please pray about helping to support this ministry? And if you’ve already given, thank you so, so much! Please pray for us as we continue to finetune the retreat material and as we continue to raise additional support to meet our salary and ministry expenses.

Many of you have walked this journey of faith with us for 45 years, many of you are just joining us. We are so thankful for each one of you!!

Right before Covid hit some dear friends asked, if they purchased a place in Florida, would we want to use it for a ministry we have been dreaming about? Of course, we said yes! May I introduce you to the property that God, the Lord Jesus, has provided. It is perfect for this ministry, It is Come Aside, Rest, Be Still, Listen.

“Behold, I will do something new, Now it will spring forth.”

Please continue to pray for the funding for this ministry. Please pray, please Give by clicking on this link. www.legacylanding.org

The name Legacy Landing comes from our friends having a place to serve their family and friends with a beautiful property, making memories, thus legacy, and our heart to have a Landing spot for those weary, battle worn and need for rest, thus, landing. We consider it a wonderful partnership.

We love each of you, thankful for our dear friends, and for a God who has shown His kindness!